This one is another classic body language of someone who is lying. For some, including ladies, they have mastered being able to keep eye contact while lying. But even then, they cannot maintain constant eye contact. You would notice that with such persons, there will be points in the conversation where the eye contact falters and their gaze becomes shifty and almost uncomfortable.
Suddenly it feels like a cat caught her tongue and she is failing to speak without stuttering. She is likely lying about the issue in question. She would especially stutter if you just caught her in the lie without her expecting to be caught.
This one is the reverse of the girlfriend who stutters. This will happen if she suspects you may already suspect her of lying on the issue. And so, she prepares for when you will confront her about the lie. Pay close attention to the story. If it feels too well-rehearsed, then it likely is. Unpick the story with a fine-tooth comb and it may start to crumble and show the cracks in it. Rather than answer your question with a straight-to-the-point answer, she starts to raise so many other issues.
It has been said that liars tend to display the following body language signs when they are lying:. While there is no definite scientific study we have seen to back this up, some liars tend to display these body language signs. Pay attention to whether your girlfriend displays these signs. She is likely to be lying to you if she displays most or all of these body language signs when talking about the issue. Is your girlfriend suddenly calling you a liar at every turn and for everything you do?
This is usually reverse psychology and projection. Pay attention to the things she is quick to accuse you of being dishonest about. This one can hurt and be embarrassing. While you should not just believe the words of one person because they may have ulterior motives, you should certainly be worried if several people say the same thing. Pay attention if more than 2 — 3 people keep pointing to dishonesty by your girlfriend on an issue s. Like we said earlier, we all lie in one way or another. Even you would have told your girlfriend some lie at one point or the other in your relationship.
And thus knowing that no one is infallible when it comes to telling lies should make us less quick to immediately take the moral high ground.
It means that we should instead be more practical and thoughtful about how we deal with the various lies we meet in our everyday human interactions, especially in your relationship with your girlfriend. This is not to at all justify a girlfriend who lies a lot. Here are 7 practical and thoughtful ways how to deal with a lying girlfriend. Falsely accusing her would also have a negative effect on the relationship and put it under strain. This is why it is important to ensure that you have concrete evidence first.
Sometimes it could just be an unfounded suspicion based on your paranoia or past bad experiences. If however, the lies touch on something much bigger like cheating or maybe lying about who she is, then it becomes more serious.
Ask and decide if you can still trust her and continue with the relationship, or whether it is a deal-breaker for you. Whether you decide to continue with the relationship or to call it quits, you will still need to talk to her about the lies you discovered. Talking to her about it is the adult thing to do.
Be as calm and less confrontational as possible during the conversation. It would not be easy to be calm and less confrontational when you confront her with the evidence you have.
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One day she sent me a conversation between her and another man in which she wrote, "Did I bite you hard? We argued about this, and later she told me the truth about it. She promised me that there was nothing going on between them and she promised me that she won't talk to him again in any manner.
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This is typical of people who dated someone in the past who was controlling or abusive. Method 8. Sometimes, people lie to hide a bad habit. It might help for her to hear some of your bad habits so she understands that you aren't perfect either. Method 9. It might take some time, but you can forgive her. Depending on how big the lie was, you may want to take some time for yourself to figure out if you can move past this or not. If you can, make the choice to forgive her and work on reconnecting with her in your relationship.
You might need to work on your underlying issues together before you can make the choice to forgive her. You can make a conscious effort to forgive someone by choosing to let the past go and releasing your anger.
You can let your girlfriend know if you need some time before deciding to forgive her or not. Method You can double check her story or ask for proof if you need to. Unfortunately, lying can be a deal breaker for many people.
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